THE BOOK Why relationships fail? : Tips to Make Connections That Last
As per dictionary, ‘A relationship is the way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected’.
That sounds simple right? Relationship is then essentially a connection, a bond between concerned parties. So why is it so difficult to be successful at one? Why do we go in and out of our relationships? Why does accepting yourself as you are, become formidable? Why does accepting someone as they are, sometimes become a task?
Why does it sometimes feel so difficult to hold on to that someone that you would want to spend the rest of your life with? Why is staying with people so difficult- roommates, kids, partner, family, and sometimes even ourselves?
And most puzzling, how does infidelity make its way in, when our lives seem full, with no time to spare? When partners are busy working towards their life together, sacrificing their time with each other, how does one find time to have a relationship with another person?
Does leadership have anything to do with relationships? What makes good leaders and how does their relationship with themselves impact how they lead?
How does being successful have anything to do with relationships? Is success not independent of my relationship with myself?
THE SUMMARY Why relationships fail? : Tips to Make Connections That Last
Who we are in life is a consequence of our relationship with ourselves and those around us. When this foundation is not strong or it begins to wobble, we see it ripple to other areas of our lives- metal, emotional and physical health. Unexplained irritation, impatience, headaches and other manifestations.
Change is inevitable, which means our feelings, thoughts, emotions are also constantly changing with respect to its environment, who we are with and what's going on in our life at that point in time.
No relationship can be evergreen and blissful without one investing time and energy in it. The mistake we make is taking a relationship for granted or assuming that it's always going to be there. We evaluate the relationship based on how we feel about the other person (at that point in time), rather than how we behave with them or how much time we give to that relationship. ‘Actions speak louder than words’, but ‘Words are louder than actions’ you may argue, giving weightage to the words you use, rather than action. Truth is, it all comes down to balance.
This book chronicles real stories, real issues and real solutions of relationships gone wrong with self, as a parent, as a leader, as a sports person, as a friend, as a co-worker, as an employee, as a lover and as a partner.
This book hosts tangible strategies and ample food for thought!
REVIEW (Why relationships fail? : Tips to Make Connections That Last
This book has been reviewed & recommended by Mr. Aman Batra- CEO of popular 'Lifestyle Magazine', Mr Jaideep Mitra- retired Major General, Dr Nalini Kopalle- endocrinologist, Mr NP Singh- retired Chief Commissioner Income Tax and Aruna Buddha Reddy- International Gymnast & World Cup Medalist.
